Friday, January 4, 2013

Why I am blogging...

I am Colin. 
 I am 15 years old and was adopted in August of 2011, 7 days before my 14th birthday.
  That's me in the middle!
Beside me are my little brother, Tommy (left) and Cameron (right).
 
我是科林。
 我今年15岁,2011年8月被领养,再过七天就是我的14岁生日。
  这是我,在中间!
在我的身边,是我的小兄弟,汤米(左)和卡梅伦(右)。
 


  I decided to start this blog as a way of sharing my experiences for other older kids who have been adopted into American families.  I want to help other kids so they won't be as scared about being adopted and leaving their country.  A lot of Chinese kids worry about being adopted.  They are afraid that they will not be safe, or cared for. 
 
我决定开始这个博客,分享我的经验,为其他的年龄较大的孩子,(已领养或还没有被领养的孤儿)我希望能帮助这些孩子们,使他们不会害怕被领养并离开自己的国家。很多中国孩子担心被领养。他们害怕,他们不会是安全的,或不会得到照顾。
 
I hope to share about my life in China, my life here in America, being adopted into a real family.  I have experienced getting a new name, homeschooling, and public high school.  I know what it's like to go into a new family and not speak the same language.  In the last year and a half, I have experienced many "firsts".  My first American birthday party, first Thanksgiving, Christmas, Halloween and other cool events.  I have become a son, a brother and have made many friends since coming here. 
 
我希望大家分享一下我在中国的生活,我在美国的生活,成为一个真正的家庭成员。我曾经历过得到一个新的名字,在家自学,公立高中。我知道是什么感觉进入一个新的家庭,而不是讲同一种语言。在过去的一年半中,我已经经历了许多个“第一”。我的第一个美国的生日派对,第一个感恩节,圣诞节,万圣节和其他有趣的活动和节日。我已经成为了一个儿子,一个哥哥,在这里,我交了很多朋友
 
Your new family might not understand all that you are feeling because they haven't done what you did and do not speak your language.  I understand a lot of what you are going to experience because I have done it.  I will not have a lot of time to blog, but I hope to post something new about once each week, probably on the weekends when I have less homework.
 
你的新家庭可能没有完全理解你的感觉,因为他们没有这样经历过你做了什么,不会说您的语言。我知道你经历过什么,因为我曾经也经历过。我不会有很多时间在博客上,但我希望能约每周一次发布些新的东西,可能在周末的时候,等我有少一些的功课。
 
If you have any questions or concerns that I have not discussed, you can ask questions on this blog by leaving a comment (Chinese or English, *I don't know any other languages yet*!) and I will do my best to answer them.
 
如果您有任何问题或疑虑,我还没有讨论,你可以问的问题,在这个博客上留下评论(中文或英文,*我不知道任何其他的语言!),我会尽我所能回答它们。
 
Thanks for visiting my blog!
Colin
 
感谢访问我的博客

科林

49 comments:

  1. I am excited to read your story, Colin. I work with your mom and she shares often about how proud she is of you!

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  2. I am excited to read your story, Colin. I work with your mom and she shares often about how proud she is of you!

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  3. I am excited to read your posts as you share your stories, Colin! I work with your mom and she often shares about how proud she is of you!

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  4. I look forward to follow this blog... though my daughter was only 10 months old when we got her. I can at least learn from you - what I can tell her about China etc thank you for doing this...

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  5. I am also very excited! My daughter is 11 years old and just adopted from China so I am thankful that you are also writing in Hanzi! Thank you!

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  6. I'm really looking forward to sharing this with our son, Cameron's friend, someday. Thank you so much for sharing your experiences with us!

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  7. Colin, I love that you started this blog. We recently adopted a 10 year old boy from China, and we enjoy having him in our family so much. I can't wait to hear your thoughts and perspective.

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  8. I will look so forward to each of your items in your blog. My daughter is 4 years old and we adopted her from China when she just turned 1 year old. We want to adopt a sister for her and we think we'll do that when she's a little older. Your blog will help us all understand better what it is like for this sister to come to America after growing up a bit in China. Thank you for doing this. Maybe one day your memoirs can also go into a book for all children to read before being adopted. :-) Thank you!!

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  9. Colin:
    Thank you for sharing your perspective and experiences.

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  10. This is wonderful, Colin! You will bless many through your experiences!

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  11. Colin

    Thank you so much for starting this blog. We will be bringing home TWO 13-yr-old girls within one month. We look forward to your postings. I'm sure your thoughts and experiences will be quite helpful.

    Grace to you -- jim and tammy

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  12. Colin

    Thank you so much for starting this blog. We will be bringing home TWO 13-yr-old girls within one month. We look forward to your postings. I'm sure your thoughts and experiences will be quite helpful.

    Grace to you -- jim and tammy

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  13. Hi Colin! This is great!! I am a HUGE advocate of older child adoption...my daughter helped me write a book about it. She is from Uganda and was adopted when she was 14. Here is our link: www.fastenyoursweetbelt.com.
    Most importantly, KEEP TELLING YOUR STORY!!! It is the voice of kids like you that is going to open people's hearts to adoption for older kids. You are awesome and I look forward to reading more!
    Many blessings,
    Jodi Jackson Tucker (p.s. great job making your blog bilingual..that rocks!)

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    1. Ms. Tucker,
      Yes, you are right. I will keep posting. It is important for people to know about older kids. There are lots of good kids that never get chosen. I was one of the lucky ones. Thank you for your comments.

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  14. My daughter came home from China in August 2011 at the age of 13. She is having a really hard time adjusting and we are having a really hard time helping her. I look forward to reading what you have to say and maybe ways we can help our daughter. Thank you for taking the time to post!

    Blessings, Susan

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    1. Susan - we too adopted our daughter last year at 13 going on 14 (in August). I would be happy to share experiences. kate

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  15. Thank you Collin for sharing your experience and thoughts with us. It is important for us as parents and our children to understand what they feel and that they are not alone.

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  16. This is an amazing gift you are providing to so many others. Thank you. When you have the time, I would be interested in what thoughts went through your head as you were driving to the Civil Affairs office (or wherever you met your family) and for those first few days. I look forward to following. Would you mind posting on FB when you post an update? Thank you again.

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  17. Colin we are so impressed by the amazing young man you are! God has BIG plans for you (besides the awesome family you are a part of) and we look forward watching you grow and learn. Thank you so much for what you are doing for others. Love, The Gregg Family

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  18. Colin we are so impressed by the amazing young man you are! God has BIG plans for you (besides the awesome family you are a part of) and we look forward watching you grow and learn. Thank you so much for what you are doing for others. Love, The Gregg Family

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  19. Colin, We adopted an deaf girl from China in Sept. 2010. She has come a long ways and continues to grow and learn a lot. You writing is good in such a short time you have been home. I look forward to reading about you.

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  20. Very cool Colin. Can't wait to read more. I have 5 adopted kids and they will enjoy reading as well...

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  21. Thanks for taking the time to write. This could be very important to many kids and families. Question: did you ever use Rosetta Stone for English?

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    1. Yes, KT. I used Rosetta Stone at home and also when I started school. I am on level 4 now. It is very helpful. Thank you for your comment.

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  22. Thank you Colin! I can't wait to see more.

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  23. You are such a special young man for doing this. We will be bringing home a 12 year old girl from China in the fall. I know your blog will be very helpful.
    Thank you so much for taking the time to assist others in their transition into a new family...both parents and child!

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  24. Congratulations, Colin, on your blog! This will be a blessing to so many families, as there really is a need for a blog like this in the adoption community.

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  25. This is awesome, Colin! What a great blog for other kids and for their adoptive parents to read. Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts with us.

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  26. This is so cool! We are preparing to bring home two teenage girls from Ethiopia and I'm looking for ways to make their transition as comfortable as possible. I'll be watching your blog for tips and advice. Bless you Colin!

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  27. http://luoyanggirl.blogspot.com/2012/08/striving-for-better-tomorrow.html?m=1
    你好!科林
    谢谢你可以与大家分享你在美国的生活经历!你很勇敢!我也是来自大陆的。我在美国六年了,上大学。今年六月毕业。英文也是我的第二语言。我在孤儿院长大!请问你来自哪个城市?现住哪个洲!祝你学业有成!新年快乐!我也有博客,也会分享我在美国的生活经历。但我不是被收养的。如果你有需要帮忙,我会努力!你可以去看看我的写作!

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    1. 你好!
      谢谢你,我现在住在南卡罗来纳州查尔斯顿,以前住在辽宁沈阳

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  28. Hi!colin
    Thank you for sharing your experience. That is great!
    I am also from china. I have been in Seattle six years. I know what life is like as an English second language student at school. If you ever need help, please ask me and I can try my best to help. I have witnessed a lotof adoptions... Learned a lot. I also understand Chinese orphanage system because I grew up in an orphanage...
    I have a blog as well...
    http://luoyanggirl.blogspot.com/2012/08/striving-for-better-tomorrow.html?m=1

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  29. Hi Colon, you're an amazing young man. Your English (writing) is beautiful! I adopted a daughter, Arielle in 2011 as well, just before her legal 14th birthday. But she stuggles with English. She never really learned pinyin so writing and English are difficult. Maybe you can somehow encourage her. Would you mind sending her an email (of course you can do that through your parents)... you can send it to my email address. jonesy4him@comcast.net I have a blog too, you can see her photo there http://ourfamadventure.blogspot.com . She's happy, a wonderful young woman, very willing to please and loves her family. We love her too! But I think she misses having someone to talk to in Chinese. God Bless you and your Family! Terry

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  30. Colin, my husband and I had the privilege to meet you in China when we were with my daughter, son-in-law and grandsons when they adopted their dear daughter. As we stood on the Great Wall with you and looked out at the beautiful country your smiling handsome face is what held my gaze. I believed then, and still do, that God has destined you for greatness. You have assumed a great task by starting this blog and will touch many people who most you will never meet. You have so much to share and so many that you will encourage. I applaud you for taking this step and reaching out to others. I will never forget your smile and friendliness!

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    1. Mrs. Linda, It was really great to meet you and your family in Beijing! I loved the Great Wall. That was my first time there too! Thank you for reading my blog. Colin

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  31. Thank you Colin. I have subscribed to your email list and look forward to your posts. Thank you so much for taking the time to share your experiences with us.

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  32. Hi Colin!
    I advocate for waiting children from China and am an internet friend of your mom's. I am so proud of you and all that you are doing. It is going to help so many other children and families! Way to go!

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  33. I know lots of adopting families. I will share your blog especially with families adopting older boys from China. Thank you for being willing to share some!

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  34. Can't wait to follow along :) I have a little boy from China-he is the BEST!

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  35. This is awesome Colin! Your mom prayed for our daughter for a long time that God would give her a family, and we will finally travel to China this month to meet our daughter for the first time. She will be 10 in March. I am looking forward to reading your blog. :-)

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  36. This is awesome! Your mom prayed for a long time for God to give our daughter a family. Well, we leave this month to meet her in China for the first time. We are so blessed! She will be 10 in March, and I look forward to following your writings. God's blessings to you, Laura

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  37. Hi Colin! I love your blog! Thanks for doing this. My son is from Cameron's orphanage in Wuhan. My son was an older adopted, but not as old as you or Cameron (he was 5 when adopted and is now 9) We hope to visit his foster family for the first time this summer in Wuhan. Can I ask what province/orphanage you came from?

    Best regards
    Rose

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    1. Ms. Rose,
      I am from Shenyang SWI in Liaoning province. My mom told me that you were a friend who supported my adoption and my brother's. Thank you, Colin

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  38. Hi Colin: I love your Blog! Great Job! I love hearing about your experience. Cameron is from my son's orphanage in Wuhan, and Cameron knows my son's foster brother, Wu Zhong Hang, who was adopted by a SC family up by Greenville. My son and I will be going back to China meet his foster family this summer, for the first time. We are excited and nervous at the same time. I can't wait to read more of your experiences. Can I ask what province you are from? Your orphanage?
    Best regards
    Rose

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  39. Thanks so much for blogging!!! This will be such a help for so many adopted kids. Our daughter is from Fushun swi on liaoning. She was 3 when we adopted her 2 years ago. We loved shenyang and stayed downtown. Maggie was our guide and we still communicate. Who was your adoption guide? There have been many older kids adopted from Fushun and many live in California and Florida. I will let them know about your blog so they can follow along. Thanks so much for doing this!!

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  40. Hi Colin, what a great idea to share your story! I live in Colorado and I have an 8 year old daughter and a 4 year old son, both adopted from China. My daughter was 10 months old when we adopted her and my son was 1 1/2 years old. Even though they were adopted at a much younger age than you, I'm sure we can all learn from your experiences and we look forward to following your blog and hearing more about your life in China and in America. Thank you for allowing us this glimpse into your life!
    Kathie, Maddie & Jax

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  41. Colin,
    Thank you for sharing this blog. We are adopting a 6-yr-old boy from China and I am so nervous about how he will transition!
    Rachel

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