Sunday, July 6, 2014

What is this thing called Church?

When I first came home to America, my parents took me with them to church. 

当我第一次回到家到美国,我的父母带我跟他们去教堂。


At first, I thought that church was some kind of school that I didn't know anything about. 
It was really weird to sit there with my new family and hear only English. I didn't understand anything that was being said.  Most of the time I would day dream about other things during church. It took a long time before I really could understand anything.

起初,我以为教堂是一些样的学校,我不了解任何事情。
这件事确实很奇怪地坐在那里与我的新家庭,只听到英语。我不明白任何他们说的。大多数时候,我会每天在教堂梦想的其他事情。花了很长时间才我真的可以弄懂。

I did enjoy the music at church very much since I like music a lot but I couldn't sing any of the songs at that time. It was more than a year before I could try to sing a few parts of songs. But now, I can sing most everything even though some of the words are harder to read still.

我非常享受音乐在教堂,因为我喜欢音乐,但我不能唱任何一首歌曲(在那个时候)。在一年多之前,我可以试着唱歌曲的几部分。但现在,我可以唱一切,尽管有些话依然是难以阅读。



After the large church service, I would go to a classroom with other Middle school students in grades 6-8. A man would stand in front and teach a Bible lesson. I would sit quietly and day dream there too. My parents bought me a Chinese/ English Bible, so sometimes I could read that while others were talking. I was bored often, but I had that Bible that I could read, so that is how I began to learn about God.

大礼拜之后,我会去教室与其他中学的学生在6-8年级。一个人会站在前面教圣经中教训。我会静静的坐着,白日梦也有。我的父母给我买了一个中国/英文圣经,所以有时我会读,当别人在讨论。我经常觉得无聊,但我有圣经,我能读懂,所以这就是我如何开始学习关于上帝。


The first few times I heard about God, it was kind of crazy. It was like a story that was being told, but I didn't really understand that it was a true story. You might think that too at first if you have come from another country where you never learned about Jesus, like me.

前几次我听到上帝,那是疯狂的。这就像当时正在讲了一个故事,但我真的不明白,这是一个真实的故事。你可能会这么想,如果你来自另一个国家,你根本不知道耶稣像我一样。

Although I couldn't understand what the other kids were saying, they were friendly to me and I quickly made friends with many of them. They thought I was cool because I looked so different and because I was good at the yo-yo (no one knows much about yo-yo in America).

虽然我不明白什么其他的孩子们在说什么,但是他们很友好,我很快结识了许多朋友。他们认为我是非常酷,因为我看上去是如此不同,因为我擅长的溜溜球(没有人知道很多关于溜溜球,在美国)。

On Wednesday nights, while my parents practiced in the church orchestra, I went with all the other middle school students and had fun time in the gym.  We did have a short lesson, but it was mostly just fun and games. This is where I learned to play and make friends most quickly. You don't need much English to throw a dodgeball! (For those who don't know, this game is where you throw a rubber ball at other people and when they get hit, they must go sit down). I was very good at this game.

周三晚上,我的父母练习中教会乐团,我会去与其他的初中学生去玩,在体育馆。我们确实有一个简短课程,但它大多只是娱乐和游戏。这是我学会了最快速地交朋友。你并不需要太多的英语抛出一个躲避球! (对于那些谁不知道,这个游戏就是你扔一个橡胶球砸人,当他们击中,他们必须下场)。我很擅长这个游戏。

To those of you who are adopted teen boys, American girls are crazy! The first few times I go to church, the girls were very interested in me and followed me around. They are not shy about talking to new boys. They are not shy about most everything. It is not like girls in China. (In the U.S., people say to you, "I love you" is common) Even though this was a bit shocking to me at first, and even though it is more common here for kids to say these things to one another, I still believe that these are words that you say to your family, and that they are important and should be reserved for special relationships only.

对于那些你们谁被领养的青少年的男孩,美国女孩都是非常疯狂的!头几次我去教堂,女孩们对我很感兴趣,跟着我身边。他们毫不避讳地谈论新的男孩。他们并不避讳大部分的一切。这不像中国的女孩。(在美国,别人对你说“我爱你”是常有的事)尽管这个有点令人震惊的,即使它是比较常见的,在这里为孩子们讲这些话对彼此,我仍然相信,这些都是你说对你的家人说的话,他们是重要的,或只有在特殊关系时被说出来。

To parents who might read this blog, if you want your new son or daughter to enjoy church, you might want to explain it to them before they go and make sure they are welcomed into a fun group, not just sitting and listening all the time. That is boring and no fun when they cannot understand.

父母谁可能会读这个博客,如果你希望你的新的儿子或女儿享受教会,你可能要解释给他们,他们去之前,并确保他们迎进一个有趣的群体,而不仅仅是坐着,那是无聊的,没有乐趣,当他们无法理解。

Also, you will want to prepare them for how different teenagers in America act.

此外,你会想要他们做好准备,关于在美国青少年有什么不同的行为。

To kids: Be patient. Church is really a lot of fun and the things that they teach there are so very important. If you don't have a Bible that you can read, ask your parents for one so that you can learn on your own in the beginning. It will help it all make more sense.

至孩子们:要有耐心。教会真是一个很好玩的地方,他们教的东西是如此的重要。如果你没有一本圣经,你可以读的,要求你的父母为一个,这样你可以在一开始自己学习。这将有助于一切更有意义。

Sunday, June 15, 2014

I'm Back!

I guess I should start off this post with an apology. It has been a crazy year with two new brothers, lots of changes at school and I have not posted in over a year. I had no idea that it had been that long.

我想我应该先道个歉。这是疯狂的一年,两个新的兄弟,学校的变化,我不知道一年没写了,

I'll begin by sharing some of the highlights of this past year. As you may remember, we welcomed Cooper and Connor into our family last March. It took awhile before it felt like they were a part of the family. Every time you grow your family through adoption or birth, things change. For our family, life got a little more crazy.

我将首先分享一些过去一年的亮点。你可能还记得,我们欢迎库珀和康纳进入我们的家庭去年三月份。他们花了一段时间才适应自己的新家庭。当您通过收养或出生的时候,你的家庭会发生一些变化。对于我们的家庭,生活变得多一点疯狂了。


It was a big change going from 3 boys to 5!

这是一个很大的变化, 从3个男孩去变成5个!

Easter Sunday, 2013

复活节,2013

Shortly after our new brothers came home, we bought a new home and moved. This new house had more bedrooms, so we had a little more room than before.

不久后,我们的新兄弟回家,我们买了新房。这个新房子有多个卧室,所以我们有比以前多一点的空间。
Now I have my own bedroom!  It is nice to be alone every once in awhile.

现在,我有我自己的卧室!所以我现在我可以自己带着。

In other news, our family now is a full christian family.

其他消息,我们家现在是一个完整的基督教家庭。

When I first joined this family, almost 3 years ago now, Tommy had already asked Jesus into his heart.

当我第一次加入了这个家庭,近3年以前的事了,汤米已经邀请耶稣进入他的心了。


My Mom & Dad told me about Jesus, but also told me that it was up to me if I believed in Him or not. I listened to everything they taught me, and all that I heard at church, but it took some time for me to really understand.

我的妈妈和爸爸告诉我关于耶稣,但也告诉我,这是由我决定,如果我相信他还是不相信。我听着一切他们教我的,和所有教堂教我的,但它花了一些时间才让我真正理解。

Cameron asked Jesus in his heart about 6 months after he came to our family.

卡梅伦请求耶稣进入他的心大约是在他来到我们家6个月后。


Cooper asked Jesus into his heart on July 21st, 2013.

库珀要求耶稣进入他的心在2013年7月21日。



Then, this past Spring, Connor told Dad that he wanted to have Jesus in his heart.

 那么,过去的这个春天,康纳告诉爸爸,他希望有耶稣在他的心。


Still, I wasn't ready. 

不过,我还没有准备好。

I had been actively seeking answers for a long time. There were things that I couldn't figure out and so I asked lots of questions of my parents and of all the pastors that I knew. Everyone was very helpful and patient with me as I searched to make some sense of it all.

我一直在积极地寻求答案。有些事情,我无法弄清楚,所以我问过所有我认识的牧师和父母。他们每个人都非常乐于助人,耐心与我找答案。

On May 14th, I was in church with the youth. I was listening to the lesson for the night and felt strongly that the Lord was trying to speak to my heart. I began to think about ways that I could share about Jesus with all those who I had left behind in China. Then I saw that I could not do that by myself. I needed the Holy Spirit's help. So, I asked Jesus into my heart as I sat in my chair. The preaching was still going on, but I stopped listening as I prayed to the Lord to come into my life.

5月14日,我在教会的青年组。我正在听课,我强烈地感到主试图讲我的心脏。我开始思考,我以前我一直在想如何帮助中国人认识耶稣。然后我看到,我自己是做不到的。我需要圣灵的帮助。于是,我问耶稣进入我的心脏,我坐在我的椅子。

After the service, I went to one of the Pastors and told him of my decision. 
He was very happy to hear about that!

礼拜结束后,我去了见谅一位牧师,并告诉他我决定了。
他很高兴听到这个消息!

When we arrived home that evening, I prepared to tell my Mom & Dad the good news. 
I told them I had something to tell them that would make them very happy.

当我们到家那天晚上,我准备告诉我的妈妈和爸爸的好消息。
当时我告诉他们,我有件事要告诉他们,会令他们非常高兴。


Then my Mom went crazy with the camera and my Dad started calling his friends to share the exciting news.

然后我妈疯狂地用相机,我的爸爸开始打电话给他的朋友们分享令人振奋的消息。


Since making this decision, I have even more heart for others. I began to know a lot of things that I can't do alone in my own strength. I now know that I need the Lord to help me each day.

既然做出这个决定,我有更多的心给别人。我开始知道了很多东西,我不能在用我自己的力量独立完成。我现在知道,我需要主每天帮助我。



My next step was the be baptized. I was about the do this in the ocean which is really cool.
我的下一个步骤将是受洗。我是在海洋中受洗的。


What was also neat was that my Dad was able to help baptize me which he thought was wonderful.

我的爸爸帮助我施洗,他认为是美好的。


If you are a kid who came from another country and have been adopted by a Christian family, and if you have questions about all this "Jesus Stuff", I'd be glad to talk to you about it anytime. I don't know everything yet, but I'm learning and I understand where you might be coming from. 

如果你是一个孩子,谁是来自另一个国家,并已通过一个基督教家庭,如果你有任何关于这一切的“耶稣”的问题,我会很高兴和你谈谈。我不是什么都知道的,但我正在学习。